Is your loved one preparing to move into Assisted Living?
Downsizing to a smaller space can be a big adjustment, but it can also be a positive step towards a simpler and more manageable lifestyle. This guide offers tips to help you navigate the downsizing process.
- Start Early and Plan Effectively
Frame downsizing as a positive step! Focus on simplifying life, reducing burdens, and creating a space that is easier to manage. Set realist
ic goals and develop a timeline for your move to assisted living. It helps to break down the process into manageable chunks, focusing on specific areas or types of items each week. This includes finding a new residence, sorting belongings, and the move itself.
- Prioritize Your Loved One’s Emotional Well-being
This starts with acknowledging the emotional weight of your loved one’s belongings – these often hold memories and stories. Offer your support and understanding – being patient and listening to their concerns during the downsizing process. At the end of the day, it is their choice what is kept or given away. Let your loved one set the pace and decide what to keep.
- Declutter Room by Room
Start with less sentimental spaces. Garages, attics, or basements are good places to begin the downsizing process. Keep the focus on functionality: Consider what will be needed in the new, cozier living space. It can be helpful to categorize belongings – sort by frequency of use (essential, occasional, seldom used).
Read our 6 Spring Cleaning Tips for Seniors for some great suggestions on how to start the de-cluttering process!
- Make Sorting Decisions Together
Create a system for sorting: Have designated piles for keeping, donating, or selling.
Evaluate items using the “one-year rule.” If it hasn’t been used in a year, consider letting it go. Other items can be prioritized by sentimental value.
- Preserve Memories Creatively
Take photographs of cherished items that you know you won’t have space for. This allows you to keep memories while letting go of physical objects. You can use these photographs to create memory books or digital archives. If possible, repurpose sentimental items – old clothing can be made into blankets preserving memories while saving space. 
- Bond Over the Past
Talk with your loved one about the memories associated with each item and take the time to celebrate stories and family history. This can make letting go easier. It helps to make decisions as a family about items with high sentimental value.
- Seek Help When Needed
If it all seems like too much, consider professional senior move managers, such as Soft Landings, or other local movers specialized in helping seniors transition into senior living. These services offer the expertise needed to help you move with ease.
Remember, downsizing is an opportunity for a new beginning. By planning carefully, prioritizing emotional well-being, and finding creative solutions, you can help your loved one transition to a smaller space with dignity and ease.
